Relationship Problems helped in Cambridge and London with Hypnosis, Hypnotherapy and applied psychological techniques

Many of my clients consult, at least in part, because they are experiencing difficulties within their relationships - most commonly within those with sexual partners or parents. These are some of the most significant relationships we can have, and, as a result, often experience problems.

Relationships with Sexual Partners

There are a number of problems that can occur within a sexual relationship. Many couples seek counselling or marriage guidance but find that even if their problems are initially helped, these problems soon return with a vengeance.

Pure Hypnoanalysis is a highly effective method for resolving relationship problems as it completely resolves the underlying emotional causes. I see many clients who are struggling with relationship difficulties and these are always dealt with in a confidential, sensitive and professional manner.

Relationship problems that Pure Hypnoanalysis can resolve include:

• Destructive relationships
• Feelings of low self-esteem and low confidence
• Feelings of hurt or fear of being hurt
• Feelings of guilt
• Feelings of jealousy, possessiveness and a lack of trust
• Feelings of unworthiness or not being good enough
• Feelings of inadequacy
• Fear of commitment
• Fear of being rejected and feelings of rejection
• Feelings of insecurity and vulnerability
• Feelings of betrayal or fear of being betrayed
• Cutting emotional ties with previous partners
• Resolving sexual problems for men or women
• Bringing back feelings of love into a relationship

Destructive Relationships: these can include relationships that are verbally, physically, sexually or emotionally abusive. A partner may: call you names, blame you, withhold affection or appreciation, isolate you, humiliate, ignore, makes threats, physically or sexually assault you.

Being in a destructive relationship often causes you to feel hurt, undermined and confused, in addition to decreasing your self-worth and confidence. Many people in destructive relationships find it difficult to leave the damaging relationship. Often this is due to very low self-esteem. Those with high levels of self-esteem and self-worth do not tend to put up with bad treatment from others.

Pure Hypnoanalysis is a very successful method for completely resolving the underlying emotional causes of your low self-esteem and self-worth, enabling you to be more assertive.

Jealousy, possessiveness and a lack of trust: sometimes your own behaviour can create problems within your relationships. Perhaps you have a loving, caring partner but your unsupported feelings of jealousy and lack of trust are causing difficulties?

If you are struggling with feelings of jealousy, possessiveness and lack of trust you may regularly obsess and brood over these feelings, constantly worrying about whether your partner should be trusted. This constant worrying can be very debilitating. Jealousy, possessiveness or a lack of trust can cause huge problems within a relationship as even a very loving and caring partner may tire of constantly being under suspicion.

Feelings of jealousy, possessiveness and lack of trust arise from deep-seated insecurities and low self-worth. When you have very low self-esteem or deeply buried feelings of guilt and shame you do not believe that you deserve to be in a loving relationship. This can manifest itself as jealousy and a lack of trust, as you struggle to believe that your partner's positive feelings towards you are real. In addition you may be playing out childhood relationships and feelings in your current relationships.

Pure Hypnoanalysis is a very successful method for treating feelings of jealousy, possessiveness and lack of trust, as it completely resolves the underlying emotional causes of your problems.

Fear of Commitment: having a fear of committing to a relationship can cause many problems and difficulties. It may be that you are in a relationship but constantly try to sabotage it (often unconsciously) even if this relationship seems to be going really well. Perhaps you may constantly try to start arguments. Or you may give the impression that you do not care about the relationship - you may, for example, forget dates or turn up late.

You may begin a relationship with someone but then repeatedly break off and restart this relationship again. This obviously causes a great deal of disruption and hurt, and can very often lead to a situation where your partner is unwilling to resume the relationship.

If you have a fear of commitment you may find that you set unrealistically high standards for your partners. You may firmly believe that you would love to be in a stable long-term relationship or would love to get married etc - BUT you are never able to find a partner who meets up to your idealistic standards. Setting the bar unachievably high ensures that you will never have to commit to a relationship, as none of your partners will ever meet your exacting standards.

In some cases commitment phobics may avoid getting into a relationship entirely and instantly reject anyone who seems at all interested. Alternatively, if you have a fear of commitment you may develop relationships with or 'fall in love with' people who are unable to commit fully themselves or do not return any feelings. You may, for example, find yourself 'in love with' someone who is happily married.

Pure Hypnoanalysis can help you to resolve your fear of commitment completely and permanently, as it enables you to resolve the underlying emotional causes.

Relationships with Parents

Many people find that they have some difficulties within their relationships with their parents.It may be that you feel judged by your parents and are anxious to seek approval from them. Perhaps you feel that you never meet up to their expectations?

You may feel that you have to be close to your parents simply because you are related to them. Perhaps your parents behave towards you in a way that you would not put up with from strangers, but you feel obliged to tolerate it from them, through a sense of duty or guilt? To see less of a parent or to completely cut them out of your life might cause you to feel guilty or judged by family members.

Very often feelings that we had towards our parents when we were children remain with us as adults, almost as if these feelings were stuck in time. These feelings can prevent us from feeling independent and mature as adults - causing difficulties in later life such as low self-esteem and feelings of being judged or wanting approval from parents, and others.

 

Resolving Relationship Problems with Pure Hypnoanalysis

Relationship problems are often rooted in low self-esteem and self-worth. Very often, anxieties and bottled up emotions from our past affect how we feel, react and behave in our current relationships. Our emotions often take precedence over rational thought and we may react in ways we don't understand or that seem to not make sense. It is possible that you are playing out childhood relationships and feelings in your current relationships. Pure Hypnoanalysis allows you to completely resolve any bottled up childhood emotions that are affecting your current relationships.

Pure Hypnoanalysis is a very special type of hypnotherapy. It is one of the best methods in the world for treating emotional, psychological or anxiety-related problems. It is a uniquely successful therapy, which allows you to completely resolve the root cause of your relationship problems, in a very safe and non-judgmental atmosphere. This therapy only takes around 6 - 12 sessions, allowing you to make huge changes to your life in a very short space of time.

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Resolving Relationship Problems with Changing Limiting Beliefs

My Changing limiting beliefs training programme is an alternative way of putting an end to many relationship problems. I have developed this process over the last 10 years, combining the unique insights that I have gained from working with so many clients with powerful psychological techniques. This programme teaches you how to take control of your thoughts, feelings, emotions, doubts and worries. Through changing your limiting beliefs you will find that you will gain amazing personal insight. With the training you will be able to completely change the way you think and feel about yourself and challenging situations, enabling you to live a happier, more successful and positive life.

The Changing Limiting Beliefs programme is particularly suitable for anyone who may, for whatever reason, find going through a course of Pure Hypnoanalysis very difficult or impossible.

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About Rob Kelly

Rob Kelly is a hypnotherapist and psychotherapist, who has been in full time practice for around 20 years. He is the Director of Training for the International Association of Pure Hypnoanalysts (IAPH), one of the largest independant hypnotherapy organisations in the world.

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How Do I Make An Appointment?

The Cambridge Hypnotherapy Clinic is open from 9a.m. - 6p.m. Monday to Friday.

A completely confidential and free initial consulatation is offered so that you can discuss your obsessions with me and we can decide which the best treatment option would be for you. This consultation also allows you to ask me any questions that you may have.

To book a free initial consultation, call me on my mobile: 07971 006 747
Or e-mail me at: rob@rck.net.

Help for relationship problems with Rob Kelly, using hypnotherapy in Cambridge and London

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